Insulin Resistance: The Root Problem Behind Diabetes, PCOS & Obesity

For years, conditions like diabetes, PCOS, and obesity have been treated as separate problems—managed with different medications, diets, and advice. But beneath these labels lies a shared metabolic imbalance that often goes unaddressed: insulin resistance.
At nellikka.life, we look beyond disease names and ask a deeper question—what is the body struggling with at a foundational level? In many people, the answer is not excess sugar, hormones, or weight alone, but a silent disruption in how the body responds to insulin.
Understanding Insulin Beyond Blood Sugar
Insulin is a hormone produced by the pancreas that allows glucose to move from the bloodstream into cells, where it is used for energy. When insulin works well, blood sugar stays stable and cells are well-fuelled.
Insulin resistance develops when cells stop responding efficiently to insulin. The pancreas compensates by producing more insulin to keep blood sugar normal. For a long time, this compensation works—which is why early insulin resistance often goes unnoticed.
Over time, however, this strain sets the stage for multiple chronic conditions.
Why Insulin Resistance Is Often Missed
One of the biggest challenges with insulin resistance is that it can exist for years before blood sugar becomes abnormal.
Many people with insulin resistance have:
- Normal fasting glucose
- Normal HbA1c
- No obvious symptoms initially
Yet internally, high insulin levels are driving inflammation, fat storage, hormonal disruption, and metabolic fatigue.
This is why insulin resistance is best understood as a process, not a diagnosis.
The Metabolic Chain Reaction
When insulin levels remain high over time, several changes occur simultaneously.
At a cellular level:
- Cells struggle to absorb glucose efficiently
- Excess glucose is diverted into fat storage
- Energy production becomes inefficient
At a hormonal level:
- Fat tissue becomes hormonally active
- Inflammation increases
- Appetite regulation is disturbed
This chain reaction explains why insulin resistance connects conditions that appear unrelated on the surface.
Insulin Resistance and Type 2 Diabetes
Type 2 diabetes is often seen as a disease of “high sugar,” but its roots lie in insulin resistance.
Long before blood sugar rises:
- Insulin levels are already elevated
- Cells are resistant to insulin’s signal
- The pancreas works overtime
Eventually, the pancreas can no longer keep up. Blood sugar rises—not as the beginning of the problem, but as a late consequence.
This is why focusing only on sugar control without addressing insulin resistance often leads to progression rather than reversal.
Insulin Resistance and PCOS: A Hidden Driver
In PCOS, insulin resistance plays a central but under-recognised role.
High insulin levels stimulate the ovaries to produce more androgens (male hormones), leading to:
- Irregular periods
- Acne and excess hair growth
- Difficulty with ovulation
- Weight gain, especially around the abdomen
Even lean women with PCOS can have insulin resistance. Weight is not the cause—it is often the result.
Treating PCOS without addressing insulin sensitivity is like treating symptoms while ignoring the engine behind them.
Insulin Resistance and Obesity: Cause or Effect?
Obesity is commonly blamed for insulin resistance, but the relationship is more complex.
Insulin resistance can:
- Promote fat storage
- Prevent fat breakdown
- Increase hunger and cravings
As insulin levels rise, the body becomes locked into storage mode. Weight gain follows—not due to lack of willpower, but due to hormonal signalling.
This explains why many people:
- Gain weight despite eating less
- Struggle to lose weight despite exercise
- Experience fatigue and brain fog
Obesity and insulin resistance reinforce each other in a vicious cycle.
The Role of Stress and the Nervous System
Insulin resistance is not driven by food alone.
Chronic stress elevates cortisol, which:
- Raises blood sugar
- Promotes insulin resistance
- Encourages abdominal fat storage
When the nervous system remains in a constant fight-or-flight state, metabolism prioritises survival over balance. This is why insulin resistance often coexists with:
- Poor sleep
- Anxiety
- Fatigue
- Emotional burnout
The body adapts to stress metabolically—and insulin resistance is part of that adaptation.
Inflammation: The Silent Amplifier
Low-grade chronic inflammation worsens insulin resistance by interfering with insulin signalling at the cellular level.
Inflammation may stem from:
- Poor gut health
- Highly processed diets
- Sedentary lifestyle
- Unresolved emotional stress
Inflammation and insulin resistance fuel each other, creating a loop that accelerates metabolic dysfunction.
Signs That May Point to Insulin Resistance
Insulin resistance does not always announce itself clearly, but common patterns include:
- Fatigue after meals
- Strong sugar or carb cravings
- Difficulty losing weight
- Abdominal fat gain
- Brain fog
- Irregular periods or fertility issues
- Darkening of skin folds (acanthosis nigricans)
These are signals, not failures.
Why Diet Alone Is Not Enough
While nutrition is crucial, insulin resistance is not fixed by food changes alone.
Effective reversal often requires addressing:
- Meal timing and consistency
- Sleep quality and circadian rhythm
- Stress regulation
- Muscle mass and movement
- Emotional and hormonal balance
Insulin sensitivity improves when the body feels safe, rested, and well-supported—not when it is constantly restricted.
Supporting Insulin Sensitivity Gently
Rather than extreme approaches, sustainable improvement comes from steady, respectful changes.
Helpful strategies include:
- Regular meals to stabilise insulin release
- Strength training to improve glucose uptake
- Adequate protein intake
- Reducing ultra-processed foods
- Prioritising sleep and recovery
- Stress management through breath, meditation, or prayer
Consistency matters more than intensity.
When to Seek Medical Guidance
Insulin resistance should be evaluated when there is:
- Family history of diabetes
- PCOS symptoms
- Unexplained weight gain
- Fatigue with normal sugar reports
Early identification allows reversal before disease develops.
Metabolic Compassion
At nellikka.life, insulin resistance is not viewed as a personal failure. It is the body’s adaptive response to prolonged imbalance.
When we stop blaming the body and start supporting it—through nourishment, rest, movement, and emotional care—metabolism begins to heal.
Insulin resistance is not destiny.
It is a signal for change.
Diabetes, PCOS, and obesity often share the same root.
Insulin resistance develops quietly, long before diagnosis.
Healing begins when we address metabolism with patience, not punishment.




