Healing the Healers: Why Doctors, Teachers, and Caregivers Need Mental Health Too

Written By Dr. Vishad Viswanath Managing Director & Chief Editor www.nellikka.life
Healing the Healers: Why Doctors, Teachers, and Caregivers Need Mental Health Too

Because those who nurture others often forget to nurture themselves.

The Hidden Crisis Behind Compassion

They are the first to wake and the last to rest — doctors saving lives round the clock, teachers shaping young minds, nurses, counsellors, and caregivers giving endless emotional and physical support.

But beneath the calm professionalism and reassuring smiles, many of these “healers” are silently breaking down.

According to a 2023 study published in the Indian Journal of Psychiatry, nearly one in three doctors in India shows symptoms of burnout, anxiety, or depression. Teachers face rising stress due to heavy workloads, performance pressure, and emotional fatigue. And caregivers — often women tending to ill or elderly family members — struggle with exhaustion and feelings of isolation.

The truth is simple but often overlooked: mental health care is as vital for caregivers as it is for those they care for.

What Exactly Is “Compassion Fatigue”?

“Compassion fatigue” is a term used to describe the emotional exhaustion that arises from constantly caring for others in distress. It’s not mere tiredness — it’s a deep depletion of empathy and motivation, often accompanied by guilt, irritability, and detachment.

It’s most common among doctors, nurses, therapists, teachers, and family caregivers — the very people society expects to be emotionally strong.

“You cannot pour from an empty cup.”

Over time, compassion fatigue can evolve into burnout, characterized by:

  • Persistent fatigue despite rest
  • Sleep disturbances
  • Emotional numbness
  • Cynicism or withdrawal from work
  • Feeling that “nothing I do makes a difference”

Doctors and Nurses: Carrying the Weight of Humanity

The COVID-19 pandemic revealed the immense mental strain on India’s healthcare workers. Long shifts, high patient loads, and the emotional toll of death and suffering led to a mental health crisis among medical professionals.

A study from AIIMS (All India Institute of Medical Sciences) found:

  • 45% of doctors experienced moderate to severe burnout
  • 32% reported symptoms of depression
  • 24% had thoughts of quitting medicine altogether

Post-pandemic, the challenges persist — violence against doctors, overwork, and lack of systemic mental health support only worsen the crisis.

Hospitals need to move beyond the “hero” narrative and offer safe spaces for therapy, counselling, and decompression.

Teachers: The Silent Frontline of Emotional Labour

India’s educators carry the mental weight of generations. Beyond lessons and homework, teachers absorb students’ emotional needs, discipline challenges, and parental expectations — often without any support themselves.

According to a UNESCO report (2024), nearly 70% of Indian teachers reported feeling “mentally drained” after work, and 40% considered leaving the profession due to stress.

Emotional labour — the act of suppressing one’s feelings to maintain professional calm — slowly eats away at their wellbeing. The result: irritability, insomnia, loss of motivation, and even psychosomatic illness.

Schools must acknowledge that teacher wellness = student wellness.
Mindfulness sessions, peer circles, and regular counselling must become part of teacher training and institutional culture.

Family Caregivers: The Unseen Mental Health Warriors

India’s aging population and strong family values create millions of informal caregivers — spouses, daughters, sons, and relatives tending to loved ones with chronic illness, dementia, or disability.

While noble, this role is emotionally draining. Many caregivers face:

  • Sleep deprivation and physical strain
  • Financial stress from medical expenses
  • Loss of personal freedom and social connection
  • Emotional fatigue, often leading to anxiety or depression

A 2022 study by the National Institute of Mental Health and Neurosciences (NIMHANS) found that over 60% of family caregivers showed moderate to severe psychological distress.

Yet, cultural expectations prevent them from voicing it — “I must be strong,” “They need me more.”

Caregivers deserve counselling, respite care options, and community support — not silent suffering.

Why “Self-Care” Isn’t Selfish

Healers often feel guilty about taking time off, believing that their purpose is to serve. But mental health experts insist that self-care is a professional responsibility, not a luxury.

Simple, evidence-backed strategies can make a profound difference:

  1. Set emotional boundaries – You can care deeply without carrying every burden.
  2. Build a support circle – Peer groups or therapy sessions prevent isolation.
  3. Practice mindfulness – Meditation, deep breathing, or yoga enhance resilience.
  4. Seek professional help early – Therapy isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s strength.
  5. Rest without guilt – A tired mind cannot heal another.

The Systemic Change India Needs

While individual action is vital, true healing requires systemic reform:

  • Workplace counselling in hospitals, schools, and NGOs should be standard.
  • Mental health days must be normalized.
  • Employee wellness programs should prioritize emotional well-being, not just productivity.
  • Training in emotional intelligence for leaders can create safer, empathetic workspaces.

The Mental Healthcare Act 2017 in India guarantees the right to mental health care — but awareness, implementation, and cultural acceptance remain key.

Doctors, teachers, and caregivers form the emotional backbone of our society. Yet, we often forget that their strength is not infinite.

If we truly want a healthier, happier nation, we must first care for those who care for us.

“Healing begins when the healer is healed.”

Let’s make World Mental Health Day 2025 not just a day of awareness, but a call to protect our protectors — the silent warriors who hold our world together.

References :
1. Burnout among medical professionals 
2. Mental health among healthcare workers during the COVID‐19 pandemic
3.Burnout in Healthcare Workers: Prevalence, Impact and Preventative Strategies
4. Ending violence against healthcare workers in India: A bill for a billion

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